Choices

Judgment

If you wake up every day and the only thing you can do is think about how people are brainless any time they don't do what's rational, apparent or what you feel is the right thing to do than you are being disillusioned by your own bad feelings and have serious issues.

If you are a perfectionist like I am, you have high expectations of yourself and others and more often than not put those same standards on other people.  You judge the people closest to you harshly which does nothing but put a strain on your relationships.

Judging others by their appearance will make you miss out on many good relationships, friend or otherwise.  A person's character is important, not how they look. Look for values that you agree with, not clothing or hair that is cool. Liking somebody for just outward reasons doesn't last long, because it's what's on the inside that counts. Judging someone before giving him or her a chance can ruin the opportunity to get to know him or her for what's inside. There is never a reason to judge somebody because of race, gender, size, shape, age or any other external reason.

Judging others doesn't lead to any good.  It's how rumors get started; feelings get hurt and tempers flare…….so think about what really matters in life and give people a chance.